One step at a time; life and grief after the loss of a partner.

This is a practical post for those grieving the loss of a partner, reflecting on how to cope with some of the many adjustments to be made. We have a future to be reached step-by-step.


The 7 p.m. Candle

There are some homes here in the UK–houses and flats, scattered around, with no geographical limit–that have a candle ready on the first of each month. Then, at 7 p.m. the candle is lit. Who are the candle-lighters? They’re not members of a religious group or a political party — at least not collectively –individually they…