They say that when you fall in love the grass looks brighter, you have a spring in your step. When something really good has happened, the tiresome aspects of your day aren’t such a bother, much like a water skier who is pulled along, whizzing over the waves.
To have a heart broken by grief is the opposite. Life can lose its lustre. Problems can seem insurmountable. A bout of sickness or longterm pain that used to be manageable becomes much less so.
Well, that’s been my experience but not mine alone. Here’s an interesting link
Best to take care of ourselves as well as we can.